Blues dance, mend my heart tonight
Lift up the soul of this wounded knight
Cherishing the thoughts of a loving past
Haloed with the dancers’ healing light
I wrote that last night before heading out for the Blues dance. I normally don’t write poetry unless something emotionally difficult happens. It is a mental cough.
The relationships that I talked about in my previous post came to an abrupt end this weekend!
I know, I never claimed that my love life was perfect. It’s too bad, because I really thought this was the one, but looks like I have to keep looking and keep trying. Who knows how many more rejections I will be going through before I meet someone who actually likes my configuration and feels comfortable with the unfamiliar me.
Gratitudes to meditation, sleeping, extra strength Advil, and Blues dance. Mentally processing a rejection takes a a bit of time. Thank goodness that Blues Dance was happening this weekend. As usual all my friends were happy to see me and I received lots of love and good dances for the rest of the night.
If you like to try Blues and fusion dancing come to Academie Duello Centre on Sundays from 8:30 PM to 1 AM. It is free for your first time to attend and there are lessons at the beginning of each session. The entrance fee is a sliding scale of $6~$20 whatever you can afford. Think of this as yoga and meditation in motion. You’re welcome!
Last year I wrote a blog post about reflecting back on my life in 2013 and described a year in which some of the most profound events of my life – good and awful – happened. 2014 on the other hand turned out to be a great year of growth and healing for me. Here is a summary:
1. Started Meditating
As a kid I used to mediate a lot. Back then I was hoping to develop telekinetic and telepathic powers. Of course that never happened, but I develop great abilities to manage my anxieties. At that time my family was going through a difficult time and my father was starting and growing his company which turned out to be quite successful eventually.
Last year I did some reading about meditation and scientific evidence of how it could benefit the mind. So I started meditating again and this time for the purpose of developing a stronger mind. A mind which can focus sharply and naturally calm down the stress, anxiety, and depression. Those 3 are entrepreneurs’ worst plagues. Meditation is something that I really recommend. Get enough sleep, meditate, and take weekly times to recharge and heal the mental and emotional wounds.
2. My company launched 6 apps
Celebrating App Launches with Sushi
rmdStudio is a mobile and web app development company that I founded in Vancouver several years ago. Last year we’ve had one of the most successful years and launched 6 apps. One for a local startup and 5 enterprise apps:
Hyve iOS App for a local startup that promotes bars and restaurants to college and university students.
My special thanks to River, Bosco, and Naomi for being such great team members. If you have inquiries please contact us
3. Two Anahita Birth releases
4. Gave Talks at Technology Events
Connecting The Dots at LaunchAcademy, Gastown, Vancouver
Two weeks later I travelled 8000 miles to Belgium and delivered the same talk at the NookuJam2014 where it was voted the best talk by an audience of 23 hackers and developers from 10 different countries. I also got to be with the amazing brothers Johan and Tom Janssens and they did everything they could to make me feel welcomed and comfortable. I can’t wait to see them again and the rest of the hackers and hackerpreneurs for the NookuJam2015.
5. Learned Blues Dance
I’ve been doing Swing, Lindy Hop, and Balboa for the past few years. We have a great social dance scene in Vancouver. Then one of my friends invited me to a fusion dance night which was happening from 10:00 PM to 03:00 AM that evening and I got hooked, except I was terrible at it. All were wobbly and confused on the dance floor. That was until I got picked out by some very good dance instructors: Jerry Hamburgers and Tamara Cohen. I started learning and practicing Blues dance 10-15 hours a week throughout the summer. I like to think of Jerry and Tamara as my Blues foster parents who raised me to become a Blues warrior and I was later sworn in by Diane Garceau who taught us Fusion dance turns and how to dip properly.
Blues dance is a lot like tango, but it is more grounded. The connection between the lead and follow is intimate and strong but it allows room for freedom. The relationships between the lead and follow are more gender-equal. It is much like a modern romance where the lead provides a reliable frame and the follow chooses whether to connect or not. I really like the Blues style of connection since Swing, Tango, and Latin dances seem to be based on traditional gender roles.
Best of all the Blues dance community is simply amazing. Every week I get to meet a large room full of people who are happy to see me and dance.
6. Found Love
Being an entrepreneur means your social life diminishes over time, but one of the most wonderful aspects of last year was that I met this wonderful woman who is very kind, charismatic, creative, smart, witty, and fashionable. She plays roller derby and is learning how to dance. I feel blessed to have her in my life and I really hope that our relationship is nourished and nurtured for a very very long time. Oh … and she has this wonderful black lab puppy called Hank. I got myself a 2 for 1 deal.
The announcement was made a week ago, but we launched the landing page in mid-December. We are building an open science platform using Anahita. It is called Banu.io which is a network for scientists to share their raw scientific data and make it available as an API. The concept of connecting the dots and network graphs have been a passion of mine for the past few years and out of all the business ideas that I have been researching and experimenting with I decided that serving science is where my heart is at. So I officially picked my battle.
So its all good right?
It is never as simple as it seems. Entrepreneurship is hard work and I have been through things that I don’t wish for my enemies, but I must say that looking back 2014 was an incredible year for me. In the meantime, I have major battles ahead for the new year. I guess that’s what the meaning of life is, or at least for me: that is to learn, experience, and grow so I can leave a positive social impact someday.
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